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𝐎𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐬, 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐚𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐭, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐮𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐭. 𝐖𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬, 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞  𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐧𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐬  𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧, 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐭, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐨𝐧𝐞'𝐬 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠.  𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐢𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐲, 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐥.  𝐖𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐛𝐲𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐛𝐢𝐠 𝐠𝐚𝐩, 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞?...

It's Never Too Late

I have seen people complaining about their lot in life  Whining and moaning, berating their fate Lamenting the hand that life has dealt them Thinking that life's not so great  I wonder why they go on so.  Angry, unforgiving souls  With emotions buried deep within  Their smiles long forgotten  And their dreams comatose  I want to shake them and wake them  To tell them it's not too late Life is but one, short and bittersweet  The good and the bad , two sides of the same coin  Sometimes happy , sometimes sad But definitely worth living this short life of ours  If life seems a never ending sorrow Change the circumstances,  only you have the power to do so  And accept what cannot be changed  Smile more often, forgive a little more Shake off the feelings of despair and doom Learn to leave ego and pride outside the door Make empathy and compassion the norm It's never too late to change your mind To become the person you dese...

RECLAIM YOUR LIFE!

I sit down in the darkened room With the soft light of dusk enveloping me in its arms And ponder about where I am headed  Why has my sparkle dimmed?  When did this happen?  Was it when I grew up and took on responsibilities that would have brought even the strongest to their knees?  Was it when the burdens of the world seemed heavier all of a sudden?  Is it only me?  Or are there women like me out there,  who feel overwhelmed by the lives they are leading?  Let me tell you this, the lessons I've learnt while trudging through the quicksand.  We did not sign up for this.  It is not a life time contract,  this feeling that we need to do things all at once, and single-handedly.  We need to regain our lost courage.. the courage to say no, the courage to put ourselves first  It's alright to prioritise ourselves for a change,  To be able to let go and do things that make us happy for once  To throw away our inhibitions ...

LIVE IN THE MOMENT!

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LIVE IN THE MOMENT A carefree childhood brings with it, laughter and unbridled happiness.  There is no time for worry Just fun and games and joy.  That's the life we all long for.  As adults, we often look back And reminisce about the days gone by,  We long for those moments once more.  As we sit alone in silence,  We wonder.. What if?  What if we could turn back the clock And be children again?  Would it make the pain go away?  Would the burdens of adulthood lessen?  But let me tell you one thing that I have learnt Looking back only makes us happy for an instant.  Real happiness lies in looking forward True peace comes with acceptance of the present and anticipation of the future.  Why pine for a lost childhood, when we can unleash the inner child which exists in all of us.  Yes, the inner child.. who has gotten lost in the chaotic lives we lead.  When and how did we forget to laugh without restraint?  When was ...

THE WINDING ROAD...

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This winding road...  it undulates like a village woman, carrying pots of water on her slender waist..  This winding road...Is it leading me to my destination?  The destination of my dreams?  or is it the destination of my destiny?  Or maybe the bend in the road is just a brief stop... where I can rest a while and recall past mistakes, past regrets?  Or maybe, where I can look forward into the future and contemplate how life would turn out to be? Any which way, this road leads me to unknown, uncharted places...  Places where I can leave my mark,  places where I can be at peace,  places where I can finally and truly be ME!

A Day By The Sea I have fond memories of days spent at the beach. Sitting on the damp sand, the feel of it like molten silk A pail, a spade and my little fingers, Building a sand castle so fine. Collecting tiny shells and shiny pieces of wrappers, I decorate it and look at it with pride My creation, haphazard at best. But the feeling is something I cannot describe. A feeling of achivement. But soon this joy turns to sadness. The tears roll down my cheeks, As I watch the tides turn and the waters rushing in, washing away my castle. And taking it out to sea. Fast forward to adulthood. I have grown but my fascination for the sea hasn't dimmed. It has only intensified with the passing years. When I feel low and life surrounds me like a shroud, I turn to the sea. For it knows all my secrets, it feels my fears and pain. The rushing waves come to greet me like a long lost friend. The shifting sand beneath my feet hold me enthralled, too scared to move, but comforted too. The undulating waves whisper in my ears, the sound as soothing as a mother's voice. The calmeness encircles me like the arms of a child around my neck. The waves tell me not to give up. They remind of the tides of life.They say it's going to be fine. And my spirits lift, the pain dissolves like the foam clinging to the waves. I have found the answers. I have made my peace And once again, all is well in my world.

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A New Beginning

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A new dawn is breaking  The promise of another day My aching heart resists, It wants to hide in the shadows Lurking in the dark  It shields itself against the brightening day But giving up? Is it an option? My head hurts with thoughts My heart in turmoil Confusing me further But I need to be brave  I must don my armour,  Ready to face the world To calm my inner demons Life is tough, it is difficult to get through the day But I will persevere I will face the world Without losing my softness And the tenderness within I have been hurt, the scars are raw But I will continue to trust I will love with my heart's humble thrust  For love and friendship to get in Once again, I will open the windows to my soul Life has been a series of let downs  And disappointments galore But I will open up my heart again To let in love and friendship No matter how life has treated me I will believe again I will emerge stronger and calmer It may not be to my liking It may not be wha...